Barbara, take it from a self centered bastard. You got nothin' to worry about with people seein' you. You're lovely and strong willed, anyone who sees elsewise doesn't deserve you. That chair doesn't change who you are unless you let it.

Though I can understand that problem, people seein' who you used to be instead of who you are. It makes you a bit bitter if you ask me. I know it did me.

Reguardless of that, you deserve better then to see yourself as less then the strong woman you are.